Tuesday, May 23, 2023

Dr Cha Korean Drama Review

I was intrigued by so many raved about this korean drama on some K-pop News website and it made me curious about the story and what makes it so famous!

Turns out, this series is fun, fresh and entertaining with their comedic character. Perfect blend of comedy and drama. The story itself is somewhat a relatable topic in this generation - about an affair and how it impacts on every relationship, either as a couple, parents, children, family, friendship and also at the workplace. But on top of that topic, we also see how someone despite of their age, is trying to achieve their dream. I love this kind of storyline and it reminds me truly with Twenty Five Twenty One - story about a young athlete


and how she achieved her dreams and becomes a National Athlete figures. Surprisingly, these kind of story tells us about when we believe we can achieve something, the universe will help you path the way. 

I would really love to tell you the storyline in each episode, but let's save it, as it turns out better for you to watch it directly and feel the entertaining sensation after a hectic day at work!


The story revolves around the female lead, Cha Jeong-Suk (played by Uhm Jung-Hwa). She is married to Seo In-Ho (played by Kim Byung-Chul), who works as a chief surgeon at a university hospital. He has a strict, sensitive and thoroughgoing personality. Cha Jeong-Suk has been a full time housewife for the past 20 years, after giving up her career as a doctor during her medical resident years. After all those years, she decides to restart her medical resident course after going through almost-death liver transplant surgery. During her marriage, even though they were blessed with 2 children, but they sleep in separate bedroom. Her husband never touch her hand nor care one bit for her. He always makes complaint and cold towards her , which turns out, her husband no longer loves her and cheated on her with his first love since university life, Choi Seung-Hi (played by Myung Se Bin). 

What makes it even frustrating is that, one day when Jeong-Suk was fainted and went to Emergency Room, he was on the airport waiting to board his flight to Europe trip for holiday with his mistress, Choi Seung-Hi. Jeong-Suk told him that she was at the hospital and her blood test came out pretty bad on her liver. He asked Jeong-Suk, whether her should cancel his "conference" and came to her or not. But stupid Jeong-Suk, he believes in her husband that he's truly going for medical conference and do not want to ruin his schedule. It hurst my heart when I saw how can someone lie and not even worried when your partner, your wife is sick and in the hospital alone and yet you're still going to have some fun with your mistress. 

When Jeong-Suk starts her residency at the same hospital as her husband and Jung Min (her first-born son), In-Ho and Seung-Hi starts to do everything they can to make her quit her job at the hospital so that their affair would still be kept under the roof. However, because of her good nature, Jeong-Suk got support from the President who wishes her not to quit from the hospital, otherwise the KRW 10 billion investment on new technology for the hospital would not be injected.  

With so many effort to keep the affair under the radar, truth always wins. The shocking part is that, the affairs has already happened for many years, even maybe around 18 years. Why? Because Choi Seung-Hi had a daughter born out of wedlock and she even attends the same class with Jeong-Suk daughter. What's even more epic is that, Seung-Hi's daughter purposely approached Jeong-Suk's daughter at the academy because she is jealous and wants to have her Dad for her. 

In-Ho claimed that the affair happened when he had his residency in the U.S. and when he came back, he just learnt that Seung-Hi was pregnant and never thought she would keep the baby. Yet, they continued the communication three years ago when Seung-Hi opted to move to Korea. And that doesn't even make sense. It sucks to know that the affairs have been for so long, resulting in something unethical and yet, he kept maintaining two families. How hurtful. I even want to vomit. 

When Jeong-Suk confronted Seung-Hi and In-Ho about the affair and how she's the home-wrecker, Seung-Hi did not even feel guilty, instead she said she's the first whom In-Ho loves when they are in the college and it was Jeong-Suk who stole In-Ho from her, for being suddenly pregnant with In-Ho's child. Well, the fault is actually in In-Ho for being a jerk. How could he made her got pregnant in the first place? Seung-Hi said, this is the retribution and the price Jeong-Suk had to pay for stealing his man. But what she did not realize is that, by doing this action, it leads to her own daughter unhappiness - because she grows up without a Dad figures and Seung-Hi action could not be compared to Jeong-Suk because In-Ho was already married and why snatched someone who's already married? That's purposely unethical and her action cannot be justified. 

With the truth finally came out, let's see what's gonna happen with Cha Jeong-Suk relationship and what choice she made for her own happiness. Can she divorced him for the lied or will she forgive him for what he did? 

Let's see what's gonna happen next :D See ya!

Friday, May 12, 2023

The One Who Loves You MOST

No matter how tired they are after work, with their willingness, they will come and pick me up. 
No matter how hard my day goes, they will be there to cheer me up. 
With no matter how I need help, they will be thete for me. 

I guess, the one who loves me the most, is my parents. 
My mom who always takes care of me, take care of my health, my mental state, and everything about me. 
I guess, I'll never pay back all their loves, all their effort on me. 
But I swear God, I'll never disappoint them in any way. Whatever they need, I'll be there. 
No matter how tired I am later, I will still come to visit them.

It brings me tears when I thought about getting married and has to leavc home, leave my parents. 
I know that's the thing that has to be done. 
But I dunno whether I'm really prepared for that. 
I'll miss my mom and my dad the most. 

In any case, I'll always remember I am precious child of my parents
I don't deserve to be treated badly. 

But with marriage itself, you bond with someone, your soulmate.
That is your closest life friend, your place to hold on, your place to share all your feelings and that's your safe place. Your HOME. 
There's someone who wait for you everyday at your new home and that's something beautiful as well. 
And that's what it is called family. 

Be grateful when you still have your parents and your loved ones. 

That Love Letter

At the age of 24 years old, I thought a lot about what's the meaning of marriage - whether I would get married to someone and whether I was ready for marriage back then. Even though I haven't met someone at that time, but the thought of marriage is quite burdensome for me - because I was not prepared to care for someone else nor build a family. But one thing for sure is that, I want to get married to someone who I want to spend the rest of my life with - the one I feel connected to, the one whom I can talk many things with, the one who always stay by my side through many life challenge. 

I've said many times before, I've always wanted to meet someone who shares the same value & connection as me, who's capable of taking the responsibility to love someone, and who's mature enough to be able to lead me. And that value remains the same up till now. 

As the time approaches soon, I take a time to digest all of the process and all of the things that happened the past three years, how I met that man I've been dreaming of, and how I decided to spend my life with that man. 

And by putting our relationship first and always consistent in loving me, that's what I am always grateful for. 

"My dear honey, 

There are no words to describe how happy I feel right now. I never imagined that you would become the ‘better half’ of me. Do you remember how we first met? That was few days after my birthday and that's when I asked God to lead me to meet my soulmate. Thank you for meeting me at the right time. After our first meeting, I started looking forward to weekends to be able to see you. 

You gave meaning to my life, and I cannot thank you enough for being who you are and accepting me the way I am. Thank you for loving me consistently and always make our relationship a priority. You have seen me through the best and worst phases of life and have always been my pillar of strength and reason to smile. 

I cannot promise the world to you, but I certainly can promise to keep loving you with all my heart. 
I cannot promise that we will never fight, but I can promise to kiss and make up with you after every fight. Thank you for coming into my life and filling it with beautiful colors. You mean the world to me. I love you with all my heart and hope to be the best wife ever to you. 

Let’s share our days and nights to build a strong and beautiful life together. I am so excited for this adventure that we begin today and to call you my husband. 

See you at the altar,

Lishea (your sweetcold)

Quotes to include:
“I Love You Yesterday, I love you still, I always have, I always will.”