Why He Doesn't Like You and How You Handle It

Unfortunately, things don't always go how you want them to. You might be into some guy, but for some reason, he's just not into you. You'll first give him little hints about how you feel (avoiding telling him bluntly) and expect him to do the same, but even with this effort, it seems that this guy is either not getting it, or he isn't into you.

Usually, the best option would be to get over him and move on, since he's obviously not able to see the beauty of what's in front of his face. Why should you care if he's missing out on such a wonderful opportunity, aka you?

Sometimes things are just easier said than done. You'd feel a lot better if you knew exactly why he wasn't falling for you in return. It's true that all guys are different, but if he just isn't into you, it's likely going to come down to one of the following 18 reasons:

1. You're trying too hard to have him
In your attempts to seduce this one particular man, you might come of as very needy. This is a major turn off for men, especially if they believe they can have you at any given time. Men love the chase, so it's best to let them do the chasing. Give him little hints, but never go for him all the way, as that will push him away.

2. He knows he can have you
This is a huge turn-off for guys. A man knows he “has” you when two things happen: 1) You're available all the time; 2) You let him KNOW that you want him badly. I don't know what it is with most men, but when they know they can have you, they lose interest.

You can resolve this by giving him the constant impression that you are seeing someone else and you've always got a full schedule. I know this may be hard to do because all you want is to spend as much time with him as possible, but RESIST your desires in order for things to progress smoothly.

3. You're not his kind of girl
Many times women get offended when a guy just doesn't like her. It doesn't matter what it is; you may just not be the right girl for him. Don't let this get to you and certainly DO NOT CHANGE for any guy. Move on until the right one comes by.

To help you get through this, think of all the guys you dated and just didn't like for whatever reason. It's exactly the same vice versa.

4. He only sees you as a friend
In your presence, does this guy talk about other girls he likes? Does he give you details about his conquests? When this happens, it's obvious that you two are just friends. He may have put you in the friend zone, but it's also possible that you declined his initial advancements and allowed for the relationship to evolve like this, only to later discover that you actually like him.

5. He's into someone else
You can't expect to instantly notice if he's a quality guy, and sometimes you notice it too late. Know that he may already be infatuated with someone else, or he might even be in a committed relationship. If this is the case, give it time, as things might change in your favor. Ideally, though, you should move on.

6. He's not sexually into you
If you've been friends for a long time, it's quite possible that the image of you naked doesn't come across his curiosity. If you see him getting excited about other women, but not you, it may mean that he's not sexually attracted to you. You can put this to the test by dressing up and showing some skin. If he reacts, it's good, but if he doesn't, it means that he looks at you as a friend and can't picture anything happening.

7. He thinks you're not compatible
Think about yourself here: Are there some things you desperately need to have in any potential mate? We'll men think in the same way. It may be that for whatever reason, you just aren't ticking those boxes, so if you want to know more about this particular issue, try to ask about what he's looking for in a woman. Is he describing you? If not, then you've got your answer.

8. He's gay
As funny as this may seem, it actually happens a lot. The world is full of closeted gays that get girlfriends (and even marry) to fit in. Don't feel offended by this because it's not in any way your fault. As the saying goes, “All the good ones are gay.”

9. He's got unreasonable standards
There are men on this planet who think they are so great that only supermodels are worth being their girlfriends. If this is the case, forget about this douche bag. Sooner or later, he's going to realize the mistake he made and you'll see him come crawling back to you. When this happens, treat him as he did you.

10. Family influence
He may like you, but his family or close friends might not approve. If this is the case, forget about this guy, as he's not a real man anyway.

11. Religious and spiritual views
Even in this day and age there are people who stand true to their religious views. This may not be his central reason (as people can convert), but topped off with other reasons, it will stop him from dating you.

12. He's not ready for a relationship
Many women don't understand this, but some of us men have a way of knowing almost instantly if a girl is relationship material. The moment we identify her as that, we have to decide: Do we want to have a relationship right now? Or do we want to keep on having fun? If a relationship is not for your particular guy, then don't worry about him and go find one that is.

13. He has no idea that you like him
Remember those subtle hints we discussed earlier? Well, he might not be getting them. You can make things easier for him if you move from subtle hints to actual words that express your feelings. Don't tell him that you're in love with him, but be flirty and tell him that you like this and that about him.

14. You're freaking him out
If you're with him day-in and day-out, holding on to his arm, breathing his air and genuinely suffocating him with your affection, then you might actually be freaking the guy out. Personally, this is my type of woman – it might come down to some sort of mommy issues – but not all guys are like me so try to control yourself and appear less infatuated if you want him to notice you.

15. There's an age difference
You might think that this guy is great, but if you're only 18 and he's 28, chances are he's not going to be interested. Regardless of what you think you know about life, sex and relationships, to him, you're a kid. Usually guys that date much younger girls (18 to 21) are guys that can't date girls their own age. That should tell you a lot…

If it's the other way around, often times, guys ask themselves the question, why is she still single at 35? Something must be wrong there…and that often turns them off.

16. He needs time
This one is very common with “great catches.” Usually guys that understand what a relationship implies, how to treat a woman, etc., are also the guys that run companies and have demanding jobs. Let's call them smarter…guys.

A guy like this has some very clear priorities. Unfortunately, in most cases, relationships and love come second to his new company, career and other “more important” things in his life. If you've got a guy like this, you can either trick him into a relationship (which will be a very imbalanced relationship, at least until his company/career gets to where it should be, which could take forever), or leave him on the spot and go search for a guy that has time to properly cherish you.

Many of these guys are and will be married to their careers their whole lives. They may seem great from the outside, but once you get to the inside, you'll see that many of the things that make a relationship great are probably missing from your life.

17. He thinks hot girls aren't good girlfriends
This is actually a very common misconception amongst “weak” males. Because they rarely have the chance to be in the presence of a gorgeous woman, they automatically assume beautiful women are not worth it. This usually comes down to the fact that he hasn't had much success with a woman like you, and as a result, he feels a sort of hate towards you. Forget about this loser and get yourself a real man!

18. He's scared to ask you out
Again, in my personal opinion, if a guy can't prove his role as a man, then he isn't a man. Thus, if a guy can't ask you out because he's scared, to unsure about himself, or whatever the reason, then he's not a good man for you.

However, if your feelings for him are so strong that you simply must have this man, despite him having weak characteristics, then do the proper “WOMANLY” thing and ask him out yourself. Do know that if you had to be the one that asked him out, your relationship will pretty much be the same the future, aka in you're the one making all the moves.

In conclusion, the above are very common reasons why any particular guy might not be into you, or might give you the impression that he isn't into you. Ideally, if your potential guy is doing any of these, the best thing you can do is forget about him since there's plenty of other guys out there that are ready to give you want you want!

Descendant of the Sun Review - Ep 16 Finale

I can't believe it's the end and now I am reviewing it. OMG. 

In this last episode, Shi Jin miraculously shows up alive on the day of his death anniversary when Mo Yeon is tearfully laying flowers and their rock on his memorial. The lovers reunite in the sun dappled desert amid apologies, tears of disbelief and stunned happiness. Shi Jin verbalizes the obvious which is that he always manages to do incredible feats as he’s yet again survived a sure brush with death.

Actually Shi Jin and Dae Yong are being kept for 155 days and finally with the help of Commander Ahn, they could escape and finally come back to their loved ones. Mo Yeon doesn't believe that it's Shi Jin who comes to her and yet she is thankful and grateful for having Shi Jin alive. Meanwhile, Dae Yong comes to Myeong Ju and he is sorry for taking so long to show up alive. Yet, after reporting their comeback, he rushes to find Myeong Ju and Shi Jin goes to Albania to meet with Mo Yeon. 

After coming back alive, Mo Yeon asks Shi Jin wheter he is going to stay on his job like he used to, or he is going to quit his dangerous job. Shi Jin calmly said sorry, but Mo Yeon says he doesn't need to feel sorry since his job is giving peace for the lives of others and Mo Yeon won't hold him back just because of the risk of losing him. Awww, they are so sweet. She respects what job he chooses and for the sake of the peacefulness of nation and their calling for duties, she won't interfere at all. She is ready to accept him just as the way he is. Mo Yeon even said, if Shi Jin doesn't come back, she is ready to be a nun and won't fall in love anymore. OMG, how deep is your love  ~ *lets disco*

Meanwhile, I like how they narate the ending, for the other younger generation, who takes the oath to serve the country, for being a doctor who will save the lives of their people without any nationality, politics or even races. That's too wonderful. It really inspires, that their job is noble and honourable and there will be many Shi Jin and Mo Yeon in the future. 

I also like the ending, though I might say it's an open ending, since there will be many more cases like that and Shi Jin is having much bigger risk for losing his life yet, in whatever reasons, Season 1 has ended perfectly with no one dies and we all so happy to know that! ^^

In sumamry, this drama makes me realize how noble it is to be a doctor and a soldier, although, there will be much like Kang Mo Yeon who often becomes a doctor for the sake of money. But really, Team Alpha and Doctors unites as one to help others in need.  It's really different from any other drama we used to see and I hope writer Kim Eun Suk will have much more stories later on in the future. Goodbye DoTs

Descendant of the Sun Review - Ep 15

Hello all, I never expect it's going to end so fast. Been loving Descendant of the Sun right from the beginning, for the cheesy line of Captain Yoo and his straightfoward way of choosing love. He respects every aspects of Kang Mo Yeon's way of thinking, even give her space to overcome her fears. I really not feeling good to say goodbye to Descendant of the Sun. It's gonna take a while for us to have a great K-drama with amazing storyline and good story-telling script. I'm gonna admit that I am a fixed fan of Writer Kim Eun Sook, with her style of writing. She is a super woman who can makes a little thing becomes a hot topic worldwide.

Thoughts of mine:

Episode 15 is too much to handle. For me, specially it's getting so intense on each episodes, with that feels like every episode is the last episode. But I don't really understand why Jin Goo said the other half of the series is much more fun. Well, it's enjoyable but I feel being played by Writer Kim Eun Sook for making Shi Jin in dangerous situation so many times.

Before we concluded episode 15, I like seeing how lovey dovey Shi Jin and Mo Yeon is. Specially when Shi Jin teases Mo Yeon with her confession as his fave song. OMG, they are so cute. Mo Yeon realizes he is listening to her cliffside confession and angrily lets go of his wheelchair. Shi Jin goes rolling down the incline in his wheelchair before hitting a curb and falling off. He’s fine of course but berates his girlfriend for nursing him back to health only to almost kill him afterwards. While Mo Yeon is worried more about the wheelchair instead of Shi Jin. OMG they are super cute <3 I hope they gonna stay forever.

But despite the sweet lovey dovey moment, we are hit with an accident. I dunno what kind of mission Shi Jin and Dae Young were sent to, but I suspect, they need to rescue the hostage and get out from the war zone area. It will take around 3 months or one season to come back to Mo Yeon as his promise. I like seeing Mo Yeon who can't hold her tears while Shi Jin leaves. It makes my heart feel her love. She is strong, she cares about him although she often teases him by worrying about anything else instead of him, but then when it comes to Shi Jin's life being in a dangerous situation, she feels even worse.

Expectedly, Shi Jin and Dae Yong are on a mission and Shi Jin gets a gun shot on his left chest and suddenly with Wolf being next to him, the place goes viral with an explosion. The rest of team Alpha assumes that Shi Jin and Dae Young have passed away though they couldn't find the body. I suspect maybe the way they treat Shi Jin and Dae Young's disappearance as a death is to cover the secret mission and makes them complete the mission to a deeper level. But why they have to say that Shi Jin and Dae Young have passed away during their mission? Besides, for the announcement, they will say that Shi Jin and Dae Young passed away due to a car accident during the training exercise. It's truly unfair while they are protecting the lives of someone else, keeping the peace of some areas and risking their life for the nation but they were treated that way. No wonder Mo Yeon cries so hard and asks Shi Jin, why he has to choose that kind of life.

One of the scene that grabs my most attention and I feel like crying but I can't since I watch ep 15 at office, is when Mo Yeon receives the news and she reads the will of Shi Jin that was written right before a mission. On the letter, Shi Jin said about the will he usually writes before the mission and how he doesn't hope Mo Yeon to receive the letter. But if, she receives it, that means he is not going to come back. He feels sorry for breaking the promises he has made to Mo Yeon, for not worrying her, for being alive and for coming back right to her side. Then he says, he meets with her, he falls in love with her and this is the way how they must part ways. Mo Yeon cries even hard when she reads that line. Shi Jin then ends the letter with him asks Mo Yeon not to cry for too long, not to think about him so much and to live well and go on with live.

Mo Yeon then lives her life with a hardworking attitude, saves the life of so many people and come back to become a good doctor, which doesn't make profit, since the life of human being is the profit of the nation after all. With one year anniversary of Shi Jin's death, she then goes to volunteer at Albania. Suddenly at a desert, where she reminds herself and pays respect for Shi Jin, that guy appears right in front of her and HE IS ALIVE! I dunno what happen but I hope it's not going to be a dream. I suspect the rest of the story how he is alive is going to be reveal on episode 16. I know it sounds so unbelievable since writer-nim makes him as a superhuman who can't die. But in a way, I expect Shi Jin is alive so many times rather than having him died.

Crap, but it's the third time Shi Jin in a super dangerous situation. I hope writer-nim not going to give us another shock for the fourth time, because it's so lame, so repetitive and we all know how dangerous Shi Jin's job is and till when are you going to tell us that kind of stories? It's going to end soon and I hope there will be major change, because if not, this kind of event is going to happen again and again till one day, Mo Yeon will never see her man again.

Descendant of the Sun Review - Ep 14

For the rest of the episodes, I won't go and making a recap for the sake of spoiler alert and thus I will only do some of the review and give back what I thought would happen till every last bit of each episodes.

Thoughts of mine on Episode 14:

The good thing of all the scenes is that, our Captain Yoo Shi Jin is not dying and thanks to Dr Kang, he is saved and very energetic to do anything else. One thing I think the scene is a little bit off is only when Shi Jin who was shot not only one time but two times, is able to walk freely like he's a superhuman. He is nearly died and yet he still cares for someone else and I understand how depressing it is for Kang Mo Yeon, yet we again know  more details about Shi Jin. The characterization is way more depth and we can see how faithful Shi Jin is towards his nation and country, even he can risk his life to protect the peace. Too much about Shi Jin's action yet I fall too deply towards him.

Commander Ahn keeps his mouth shuts even when the South Korean is willing to help him for amnesty. It's Seo Dae Yong and Shi Jin who manage to get the information about the traitors and Commander Ahn asks them to help him back to his own country. Shi Jin then manages to get the rest of the information from Commander Ahn about his Commander General is the one who sold his own country and that's the responsibility of Commander Ahn to finish the traitors, but sadly he is way more senior than Commander Ahn. But Shi Jin and Wolf is able to help him return to North Korea and finish the traitors.

This episode focus on how Shi Jin does his mission and many times he is capable of succeeding. Yet, in Kang Mo Yeon's point of view, he really tries her patient for doing his job in a dangerous and secretive way. Then Mo Yeon understand that's what he really needs to do but she asks him not to come back to her in a bloody way and always hope him to come back safely. I wish him the best too everytime he goes to department store.

In the preview of episode 15, I wonder whether Shi Jin will be saved or he will die, but somehow it suggests Shi Jin will die in the end and with many spoilers around, it seems to suggest that Shi Jin will die and Mo Yeon will have to go on with her life.

No words can describe how I feel. Shi Jin is able to quit from being a Special Force Soldiers for the sake of Mo Yeon, but then will you take away the dreams and aspirations from someone you love? I am salute with Mo Yeon, how she manages to understand Shi Jin's job and tries not to overcross it.
Anyway, let's just see episode 15 and hope for the best and safety of Shi Jin.

Descendant of The Sun Recap - Ep 13

Kang Mo Yeon and the rest of the nurses finally come back to Seoul. With their comeback, the director of the Hae Sung Hospital welcomes them, saying there will be bonuses and compensation for their hardwork. Not only that, he tells Chi Hoon how stress it is to have Chi Hoon's Mom who come to hospital everyday and pesters him to bring back Chi Hoon, and to submit to her, the rest of the doctors and nurses who just come back need to have a medical examinations.

The Managing Director reluctantly walks up to Mo Yeon and shoves a bouquet of roses in her arms. He starts to berate her for not coming back as he sent that airplane specifically to retrieve her, and he was so upset when she elected to stay in Urk longer.

Mo Yeon calls Shi Jin in Urk and misses being back there. Mo Yeon asks how much Shi Jin makes and he pretends the connection is going bad. He assures Mo Yeon that if she loses her job then Alpha Team will find her a position with them which makes Mo Yeon smile. She assures him that she won’t lose her job.

The Managing Director apologizes to Mo Yeon for that night in the hotel room, he was wrong for assuming he could treat her that way. Mo Yeon figures she was the first to slap him and then apologizes for quitting her job on the first day back in Seoul. The Managing Director doesn’t want to give up on Mo Yeon and asks what he needs to do. Mo Yeon says he can quit his job and demands that he process her resignation within the week.

Mo Yeon meets with her banker on getting a practice loan and is shocked to hear that she’s been turned down. Her conditional acceptance was when she was a star doctor at Hae Sung and without that job she’s not approved for the loan now.

Shi Jin takes a call from Mo Yeon where she frets about not being able to get a loan now. Shi Jin wonders why she resigned first before getting a loan, shouldn’t it be the other way around? How could she be so short sighted? Mo Yeon angrily tells him to stay in Urk and not come back to Seoul to such a short sighted girlfriend!

Mo Yeon brings a basket of flowers to the Managing Director along with a sincere attitude that she wants to stay because she’s been at Hae Sung for eight years since she was a resident. The Managing Director takes her back but assigns her to the ER, starting with night shifts. Mo Yeon adopts a conciliatory attitude and agrees to work the ER which is the face of the hospital. He hands back her resignation letter and asks her to come to him if she can’t handle it in the ER anymore, he’ll make her a VIP even over working the VIP rooms as the doctor.

Dae Young goes outside to brood over General Yoon’s request that he quit the army after he gets back and goes to work at Myung Joo’s grandmother’s company. Myung Joo joins him to get out of the hospital room for some fresh air. Dae Young picks her up and set her down on a rock, noting that she’s lost weight in the recent illness. He blocks the sun for her before saying “I love you, Myung Joo.” She’s worried why he’s so open and asks if he wants to break up.

Dae Young doesn’t want to break up and plans to love Myung Joo forever. She starts to cry and smile as he keeps blocking the sun for her. Dae Young and Myung Joo go to remove the landmine sign from the area that’s been cleared and he takes her hand as they walk off.

Dae Young fills out a transfer application and hesitates for a long time before starting to write. Afterwards Dae Young and Shi Jin sit down at a restaurant and start drinking for their promised three day three night bender.

Shi Jin starts calling around and mutters about people not picking up the phone. Dae Young points out that the one who shouldn’t pick up did and we see Sargent Choi has joined in. He explains that he turned the lights off and was lucky he wasn’t nearly beaten to death.

Mo Yeon rushes to the restaurant in the morning after her night shift is done and finds a bunch of drunken soldiers with Myung Joo. Mo Yeon is upset that Shi Jin is seeing her for the first time all drunk since she got all dolled up to welcome him back to Korea. Myung Joo hands off the drunk soldiers to Mo Yeon so she can return to base since she’s not on leave. Mo Yeon wants Myung Joo to take Dae Young with her but hears that it’s going to be three days three nights here.

Drunken Shi Jin and Dae Young discuss which girl is prettier, the one who just left or the one who just arrived.

 

The drinking continues as more soldiers arrive that night, and by the morning it’s just Shi Jin and Dae Young again. She Jin tells a sleeping Dae Young to wake up before he starts to pass out. They continue drinking and ask the owner for more soju.



Mo Yeon returns to find Dr. Song has joined Shi Jin and Dae Young. Shi Jin calls her the pretty girl from yesterday and vows to talk to her. He asks if Mo Yeon knows him? Dr. Song says the girl is Shi Jin’s girlfriend and he’s super excited. Mo Yeon starts to drink as Shi Jin passes out next to her.



Shi Jin takes a drunk Mo Yeon home and asks her to take off her shoes and rest. Mo Yeon won’t take off her shoes at someone else’s home and gets all excited thinking Shi Jin said they should have fried chicken and beer.



Shi Jin snaps to soldier mode after hearing a noise and his investigation unearths Mo Yeon’s mom’s things laying around the kitchen. Oh snap! Mo Yeon’s mom reveals herself with a smile and proceeds to ask who this man is?



Mo Yeon is super drunk and says this good looking man is her boyfriend. Mom apologizes for Mo Yeon’s drunken state which Shi Jin finds really cute. She asks his profession and hears that he is a soldier, and says its good to gets a regular salary but is not regularly at home. He thinks she’s referring to him but Mom is referring to her Mo Yeon who lives at the hospital.



Mom wonders why he’s just standing there, did he do something wrong? Shi Jin is all tongue tied and says he didn’t. Mom wonders why not and Shi Jin says he’s ready to…..and then stop himself because that sounds wrong, Mom totally likes his innocent boy style. Her Mo Yeon is the same, all she knows to do is study and has only held a guy’s hand at most. Mo Yeon drunkenly brings up her medical school sunbae and the Managing Director, telling Mom that Shi Jin knows about those guys already. Mom takes her leave and tells Shi Jin to stay since she’s not that conservative. Awesome Mom! Shi Jin tells her to stay with Mo Yeon because he’s that conservative and takes his leave.

Shi Jin asks Mo Yeon as they sit down to eat what her mom thinks of him? She wonders when he met her mom and that gets him so jealous, warning her to never drink again. Mo Yeon laughs at riling him up but then Shi Jin gets a call and tells Mo Yeon that he needs to go to the department store, their code for a mission. He apologizes and Mo Yeon says that’s fine, asking him to watch a movie with her when he gets back. She wishes him a successful mission.

Dae Young and Shi Jin are at NIS and have exchanged their soldier uniforms for bodyguard all black suits. Colonel Park is there as this mission 1029’s commanding officer.

The bodyguard team is assigned their weapons and their mission is to guard a high level North-South Korean talk in Pyeongyang. They are even assigned pens that they can use to commit suicide by stabbing their carotid artery. Ouch. On the North Korean bodyguard team is the commander from the beginning of episode 1 who sparred with Shi Jin. They discuss having another sparring session but Shi Jin isn’t going to go easy. Instead he asks the commander as host for traditional North Korean naengmyun (cold noodles). During lunch he hears that the commander will not be leading the bodyguard team going to Seoul for the next round of talks as the commander will be on furlough then.



Shi Jin is at the hospital and gets into the elevator with the Managing Director who starts asking his minion for an update on Mo Yeon. He hears that she’s working hard in the ER and the flowers are still being sent daily to her but she isn’t accepting it. He asks about Mo Yeon’s reported soldier boyfriend but the minion can’t get any information on the guy. All he has is a picture and it’s the one of the soldiers and medical team all together.



The Managing Director is all pissed since he can’t tell which of the soldiers is the boyfriend. Shi Jin interrupts and points to himself in the picture and says the boyfriend is this guy – Captain Yoo Shi Jin. The Managing Director and minion are excited until they realize the guy in the picture is standing right there.

 

Shi Jin gets off the elevator first and the Managing Director follows to stop him to talk. He checks out Shi Jin and tries to bluster, asking if Shi Jin is good at fighting and really all that. Shi Jin is all smiles and brings up the Managing Director taking Mo Yeon to a hotel on their first date. Shi Jin warns him to be careful, Shi Jin is really good at fighting.

 

Dr. Kim wants Mo Yeon to cover her night shift but Mo Yeon refuses, even if she’s covering night shifts now she’ll do it for everyone except for Dr. Kim. Shi Jin walks up after finishing his department store shift and Dr. Kim asks for an introduction. Shi Jin says nice to meet you and introduces himself as Mo Yeon’s boyfriend Yoo Shi Jin. Mo Yeon heads off with him as Dr. Kim pouts about why a soldier can be that handsome.



Mo Yeon is upset that Shi Jin said nice to meet you to that sly fox at the hospital even after Mo Yeon made it so clear with her attitude that she didn’t like Dr. Kim. Shi Jin tells her to not be upset if she knew who he just ran into. She realizes it was the Managing Director and decides to change the subject to buying him dinner and randomly admiring the water fountain.



Shi Jin teases about wanting to talk about the Managing Director and then puts his hand around her neck. She thinks he wants to strangle her but in truth he’s brought her a present and wanted to make sure it fits. Shi Jin puts a sun shaped diamond necklace around Mo Yeon’s neck and they walk off hand-in-hand, though she still claims to be the type of woman who can’t get bought by baubles.



Shi Jin and Mo Yeon join Dae Young and Myung Joo at the coffee shop from the first episode. The waiter remembers them, telling the two men they had different girlfriends last time. A rabbit and a bear, right? Dae Young points to Myung Joo as his real girlfriend while Shi Jin calls Mo Yeon his comrade. Myung Joo wonders why they came with stuffed animals and hears about the attempt to get the phone back.



Mo Yeon realizes that it was the day they met and they exchange fist bumps. Dae Young shows Myung Joo the pictures from his phone that he wanted to get back. She doesn’t see any pictures of her, just pictures of cars with license plates. Dae Young says it’s all pictures of Myung Joo because all those time they would go drink and he couldn’t drive her home so he snapped those pictures of the car service he would call for her. Myung Joo swoons over her loving boyfriend and even Mo Yeon finds Dae Young really cool.



Mo Yeon brings up how Myung Joo knows the swipe password to Dae Young’s phone and hears that Myung Joo set it up for him. Shi Jin is upset and tells Dae Young that his phone comes with an instruction manual to set it up. Dae Young is happy with it because it’s one of a kind. Mo Yeon and Shi Jin want to leave this too lovey dovey couple but is told to stay.



Myung Joo is still in a great mood as Dae Young drives her home until she realizes he’s driving her straight home. She reminds them that they are adults in a relationship and he doesn’t want to take her home that early as well. Myung Joo sees a call that she wants to decline and asks who it is, is it that medical school sunbae. Myung Joo assures him that it’s not so Dae Young puts his car on auto pilot before leaning over to glance at the call. He puts the call on speaker and hears his subordinate reporting to on his daily activity to Myung Joo. He orders the subordinate to make ramyun and wait for him to get home.



After the next light, Dae Young puts the car on auto pilot again before leaning over to kiss Myung Joo. She’s all ready so he pauses and claims he’s not going to kiss her a punishment, before leaning in to kiss her deeply.



Dae Young is summoned to meet with General Yoon and Myung Joo. He’s handed a dossier on his transfer request out of the military. Myung Joo begs her dad not to force Dae Young to quit the military. General Yoon tells Dae Young that Myung Joo asked her dad not to make Dae Young quit if she survived her illness. To Dae Young that is a decision between Myung Joo and her dad and unrelated to the promise he made to quit the military.



Myung Joo orders Dae Young outside to talk and she’s upset at hearing this news like this. Dae Young wants to be with her forever and that’s most important. Myung Joo brings up how she used her life to get that promise out of her dad but that makes Dae Young even more upset that she did it. Myung Joo asks that he should have discussed it with her. Dae Young did, all the time he was avoiding her it was a discussion of their future.



Dae Young doesn’t want a future with Myung Joo if it’s based on General Yoon relenting with her life on the line. Myung Joo tells Dae Young she doesn’t want to start with him then, if his life is worse because of her then she doesn’t want that. She wants him to be happy. Myung Joo turns and walks away from Dae Young.



Shi Jin and Mo Yeon sit down in her apartment to watch a movie and he’s happy to be back to the start. Mo Yeon says they need to go back to the start, that beach where they picked up the rock. Shi Jin promise that they will go back.



This time it’s Mo Yeon who get a call to go to the ER. She apologizes and Shi Jin tells her to go, he’ll stay and finish the movie. Mo Yeon knows he’s using her earlier words again and tells him no go. Shi Jin sighs at missing a movie yet again.

 

Shi Jin and his team are on the mission starting with a run through exercise. He notices Dae Young munching on a candy bar and asks why he’s not sharing. Dae Young says it’s not enough to share and even though he bought two he ate both. Shi Jin is shocked to hear about a break up but before they can talk further they are interrupted by the arrival of the North Korean commander from the first episode.

 

An ambulance arrives at the Hae Sung ER and the first patient wheeled out is the North Korean commander who is all bloody suffering from gunshot wounds. Mo Yeon expertly sends him to the OR before she covers her mouth in shock at seeing the second patient laying on the gurney – it’s a bloody and unconscious Shi Jin. This scene is intercut with scenes of Shi Jin seemingly getting shot in the parking garage multiple times before falling dramatically on the ground.

Thoughts of mine:

I really don't like this episode since it's making me wonder and that's true, from this point, every episodes feels like the last episode and I wish nothing would happen to Shi Jin. He is so in love with his nation and I didn't wish him to risk his life even for the country. Well, when I said that, I feel being Mo Yeon. Yeah, no one would be able to not worry about someone they care so much. 

It is said that there will be bed scene, though I dunno which couple but seeing how conservative Shi Jin is, I guess it would be Myeong Ju and Dae Yong. 

My most salute part of this episode is that, Mo Yeon and Shi Jin compromise with each other, they try to understand and hopes for the best for them and when you see that little action changes from the first time they meet till now, you would see how much effort they have made to be together and I really didn't wish them for a forever breakup.