Been wondering why most people get married and well yeah, I guess it's one of the choices which life offers to you. And it's up to you whether you wanna walk on that path. Marriage for me is something kind of 'holy' thing in which I wouldn't do it for the sake of not being alone.
My pals around one or two year older than me are getting married and I am really happy for them, Sometimes I also wonder, to myself, when it's going to be my turn and who's going to walk the aisle with me. It's just something anyone doesn't even know till the day comes. I am 24 years old soon and I could say that I am worried too sometimes that I am going to get older and older yet nobody is going to take me. But I asked myself, am I ready to get married? I couldn't answer that.
Although it's a holy thing, it's just something that I am not prepared to go through it. Marriage means you have to share your time with someone else, for the rest of your life. Besides, not only that, but you got another homework to build your new family, to adapt to one another and it's a homework because you deal with a new issues in life. In the end I realize that marriage is not the final thing that you have to achieve in life and yet it's not a competition in which you compete who's going to get married first.
I'd rather be single rather than being into a relationship in which I don't even have a feeling for the other person. It seems suck, but I couldn't be into an agreement that by times, although you have no feeling to the other person, you will fall eventually to him. Maybe it could happen but for me, I believe that I will get married to someone I feel I wanna spend the rest of my time with him. Not because I was forced to do it.
Cheers and be blessed!
Cheers and be blessed!
