Even Waiting Has A Limitation

In the matter of love, girls often feel hesitant because they are the party who always end up in waiting. When you first attempt to require certainty in relationship, the responses were varied. There are some who notice it, yet there are those who doesn't even care!

If his attitude can't be tolerated anymore, then you should just end it. Because you should maintain the pride of being a woman. Never look so much desperate for his attention. And if he doesn't even bother about you, then perhaps you should consider these below five things;

1. Limit your communication with him. Before you are actually going to leave, at least this can be the first step.

The easiest way is ignore him back. Keep in mind, if he can cool as hell, why can not you? When he disappeared for days without news, you no longer need to frantically looking for his whereabouts. Put your ego behind and stop looking for his whereabouts. There is no need to contact him many times. Just once, and even then if there is a need. The rest let him live his own life. You will be too, begin to live your own life and do something more useful than just waiting for him. 

2. He gave you the signal but he can not give certainty, then why do you still remember the things that makes you love him

It is quite dangerous when you love someone, and all of his personality turns out to be always perfect and in a positive way. Yet as a human, he also has many negative side that will make you ilfeel. But, what can you do when you're so in love? Everything about him all is good and there's nothing than can stop you. Therefore, you should be able to control the feelings from now on. Do not let love overwhelm logic. 

3. Let's not take it much to heart if his attitude suddenly turned sweet. Obviously he was there he wants with you

He who never concerned with your daily activities, suddenly asked sweetly. Not to forget, that he pays attention to tell you not to forget to take rest. He who never gives you the news, was suddenly absent to reach you. Why is there such a change in his attitude? Maybe you would expect that he's been willing to change, so that the relationship could be better? Never dream any of it and don't hope for a person's attitude can change so fast.  If he suddenly treats you well, maybe he wants to ask for help. Let's be smart!

4. If he is the one, you should not have struggled so much

If he was sincere with the feelings for you, he would not be reluctant to hold your hand and ask you to fight everything together. While this time he did was only letting you fight alone and hee would never understand how you feel in the struggle to survive in a relationship. If you must bleed alone, maybe he is not the one.

5. In the end, he chose to leave is the best option that you can do

Waiting does not mean you want swayed in obscurity situation. At least if he asks you to wait, he can show you his business. So you do not have to wait in uncertainty.

Meanwhile, if he asks you to wait, but he was still immersed in his own world, then you should be firm. Leave him and be prepared to meet him who is willing to show seriousness. Build a common future can not be done alone, there must be cooperation between you and him. Then what do you persist in people who do not want to fight together?

Accompanying him to pioneer many things may seem heroic at all. But in the notes that, he does it to bring good to himself and the life you two later. Meanwhile, if he still had no plan for the future, convinced still want to hold on?