Status as singles often causes people to be melancholy. There are many reasons for that, sometimes when Saturday night strikes and your friends go on a date, you've got no one to hang out with. I mean if you have, until when are you going to be like that? Everyone sooner or later will have their own significant. Besides, when trouble strikes, you don't know whom and what to tell the story about. Many times you will feel bored to go somewhere alone and lead you to think that you are so unlucky. If this keeps going, you will naturally forget how to be grateful.
Even if you are single, there are many things to be grateful and happy for. Below are the things you could do to feel grateful even though you are single.
1. People could tell that you are lonely. Let it go. Beat them with your SMILE.
The most vulnerable question is, "You're 23 right this year? Still single? Want me to look for one for you?". Well, although it's a joke but if the question was always be thrown to you all the time, then you can get real upset about it. These jokes may make you feel the pressure which resulting in your shapeless face.
Instead of a sour face every day, why don't you try to radiate positive aura with a smile?
2. Practice to compliments others
The road to find the right one is indeed not easy. Many times we have to go through the dark cloud while being single and this phase is not easy to get passed, moreover when all of our friends already have their significant other. And many times, the being alone makes you overthinking about the future.
Before you sink to even deeper grounds, there is nothing wrong to change your stand point of view. Try and practice to appreciate others and you may find yourself to be more open-minded. Complimenting others help you to recognize what life has given you, either you are still single or not, you may find yourself to be grateful to what life has offered and who knows by doing that, people will notice your way of pleasing others and your status will change soon.
3. Help others may help you to find inner peace.
Well, if you really want to immediately found your significant other, try to become a person who is open and indifferent in every respect. For example, you can help others. Helping others will give you inner peace and not only you can make others to feel happy, but you are also indeed happy.
4. Keep improving yourself
Many times, being single makes you feel not confident about yourself. Maybe, you have experienced being asked this question, "You are so beautiful, kind, gorgeous, why are you still single?" And this make you think, "Why no one likes me?" It's not about why and what is wrong with you. But it's just not the time yet.
Rather than thinking this and that. isn't it better to be yourself, keep improving your skills, your attitude, your way of thinking and keep learning? This may help you getting to know yourself and yourself worth, and many times help you getting to know what you are looking for in a life partner and in life. Then, this way, you are not JONES - Jomblo Ngenes, but Jomblo Berkualitas.
5. Hug your family and friends.
Never let the feeling of being lonely take over you. Remember you got family and friends who always ready to hug you whenever you need them. I got only few friends, but they are the best in my life. Although I've been single for 23 years, they still fill my younger years with smiles.
6. Congratulate your friend who is getting married.
The most depressing moment for single is when your friends are getting married, while you still got no one and there's still long way to go. Sometimes you will fell, "When will be mine?". And much more, you will feel ungrateful of your destiny. The best thing is to congratulate your friend and let go of your feeling. Maybe now it is the time for your friend and who knows maybe it's your time next year, right?
God has arranged the best possible way for each of us. Believe Him and everything is beautiful is ITS time.
7. Count Your Blessings
Take note on things that make you feel grateful. Sometimes we naturally forget about the blessings we have received so far and thus, take note. This will help you later when we have to keep reminded ourselves to be grateful.
8. Respect others, Appreciate them and Say thank you
Don't forget to treat others in a good way. Maybe when you are close enough with someone last time, you hurt his feeling.
Give thanks to your family for being besides you always, your friend who always support you and thank God for giving you a chance to live.
When you are grateful, fear disappears and abundance appears - Anthony Robbins
Even when you are single, you should be happy!
Cheers!
1. People could tell that you are lonely. Let it go. Beat them with your SMILE.
The most vulnerable question is, "You're 23 right this year? Still single? Want me to look for one for you?". Well, although it's a joke but if the question was always be thrown to you all the time, then you can get real upset about it. These jokes may make you feel the pressure which resulting in your shapeless face.
Instead of a sour face every day, why don't you try to radiate positive aura with a smile?
Smile makes your heart light and can make others happy to see you being happy. Although you are single, you ought to be happy. Show your smile and don't be shy. The good thing is, with your cheerful face, you never know there's someone who will be interested to get to know you.
2. Practice to compliments others
The road to find the right one is indeed not easy. Many times we have to go through the dark cloud while being single and this phase is not easy to get passed, moreover when all of our friends already have their significant other. And many times, the being alone makes you overthinking about the future.
Before you sink to even deeper grounds, there is nothing wrong to change your stand point of view. Try and practice to appreciate others and you may find yourself to be more open-minded. Complimenting others help you to recognize what life has given you, either you are still single or not, you may find yourself to be grateful to what life has offered and who knows by doing that, people will notice your way of pleasing others and your status will change soon.
3. Help others may help you to find inner peace.
Well, if you really want to immediately found your significant other, try to become a person who is open and indifferent in every respect. For example, you can help others. Helping others will give you inner peace and not only you can make others to feel happy, but you are also indeed happy.
4. Keep improving yourself
Many times, being single makes you feel not confident about yourself. Maybe, you have experienced being asked this question, "You are so beautiful, kind, gorgeous, why are you still single?" And this make you think, "Why no one likes me?" It's not about why and what is wrong with you. But it's just not the time yet.
Rather than thinking this and that. isn't it better to be yourself, keep improving your skills, your attitude, your way of thinking and keep learning? This may help you getting to know yourself and yourself worth, and many times help you getting to know what you are looking for in a life partner and in life. Then, this way, you are not JONES - Jomblo Ngenes, but Jomblo Berkualitas.
5. Hug your family and friends.
Never let the feeling of being lonely take over you. Remember you got family and friends who always ready to hug you whenever you need them. I got only few friends, but they are the best in my life. Although I've been single for 23 years, they still fill my younger years with smiles.
6. Congratulate your friend who is getting married.
The most depressing moment for single is when your friends are getting married, while you still got no one and there's still long way to go. Sometimes you will fell, "When will be mine?". And much more, you will feel ungrateful of your destiny. The best thing is to congratulate your friend and let go of your feeling. Maybe now it is the time for your friend and who knows maybe it's your time next year, right?
God has arranged the best possible way for each of us. Believe Him and everything is beautiful is ITS time.
7. Count Your Blessings
Take note on things that make you feel grateful. Sometimes we naturally forget about the blessings we have received so far and thus, take note. This will help you later when we have to keep reminded ourselves to be grateful.
8. Respect others, Appreciate them and Say thank you
Don't forget to treat others in a good way. Maybe when you are close enough with someone last time, you hurt his feeling.
Give thanks to your family for being besides you always, your friend who always support you and thank God for giving you a chance to live.
When you are grateful, fear disappears and abundance appears - Anthony Robbins
Even when you are single, you should be happy!
Cheers!
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