Kim Hyun Joong's Paternity Test Result is OUT

The paternity result is out and it is positive 99.99999% that Kim Hyun Joong (KHJ) is the father of Ms. Choi's son. Do you still remember about the assault case of miscarriage of Ms. Choi? Both parties stated, they are still going to keep the case on going. Both Ms. Choi and the singer-actor’s family have spoken out.

Ms. Choi’s attorney, Sun Jong Moon, stated, “My client and Kim Hyun Joong lived together for about two years and she became pregnant five times during that period. We have submitted 66 pieces of evidence for the damage lawsuit.” He continued: “Kim Hyun Joong has continuously held unnecessary press conferences and performed media play that made my client out to be a national swindler and blackmailer without any evidence. Kim Hyun Joong will have to show himself responsible for his child and protect the rights of his child and the mother, and apologize for the ‘murder’ of Ms. Choi’s character through commentary in the likes of ‘She will have to take responsibility if the child is not mine.’”

Kim Hyun Joong’s parents held a press conference after the paternity test result was revealed. His father, Kim Hong Sung, stated: “When I heard she gave birth, first, I was sorry. I was sorry because I couldn’t see the child even though he is my blood. [The paternity] should have been revealed earlier. We said many times, starting from January, that we would take responsibility but the paternity confirmation was delayed. We are relieved that the paternity has been revealed, however late. We are sorry to the child. We are happy he is healthy.” The father continued: “Hyun Joong acknowledged that the child was his from the beginning. He always said he would take responsibility. Didn’t he say he was sorry to the child in the letter that was revealed in September?”

Kim Hyun Joong’s father revealed that he talked to his son, who said to him, “Dad, since the child is mine, I will take responsibility. The court will deal with the issue of child custody and I will follow that decision.” Kim Hong Sung added, “No matter to whom the custody is given, if it is for the best interest of the child, we will follow.”

Kim Hyun Joong’s mother, crying, responded in regards to Ms. Choi’s demand for an apology, “If Kim Hyun Joong dies, is that an apology? If his family dies, is that an apology?” She added: “A child needs to be welcomed into the world. We hope that the child will no longer be linked to money. We will do our best for the happiness of the child. We said several times that we acknowledge paternity and that we will take responsibility but why does she keep trying to kill Hyun Joong?”

Kim Hyun Joong’s father added, “We want to reach a solution regarding the child over conversation.” Regarding the lawsuit against Ms. Choi, Mr. Kim stated that it is a separate matter necessary for revealing the truth so it will not be dropped. Kim Hyun Joong’s lawyer, Lee Jae Man, stated, “If we don’t continue with the lawsuit, Kim Hyun Joong will have to live with the disgrace of being accused of assaulting her for becoming pregnant with his child.”

The story is far beyond what I have expected. Last time I was still in the hope that the child is not KHJ and expected Ms. Choi to be a liar. But then as the news is coming out, I have to state that both parties are wrong in any aspect of the case. 

How could, a woman, after being into an abusive relationship got pregnant 5 times during 2 years and you still want to get pregnant again (ed. the last pregnancy) with the same guy you slept with 2 years ago? I still couldn't understand what logic did she think about? For sure, it's not only KHJ's fault but BOTH of them for their lack of humanity, lack of virtue, lack of attitude towards life and their irresponsibility and their childish action.

There is no more like a pity and reputation being tarnished because both of them deserved it.

Complicated Case on Kim Hyun joong & his ex-girlfriend

"what is the scandal about?"

"to sum up, KHJ's ex-girlfriend, Ms. Choi claims to have been abused repeatedly by KHJ last year in 2014. Because of the repeated abuse, she was miscarriage for two times and one time going under abortion. KJH admitted that both of them had a fight and accident, but it is not repeated abuse, thus the assault case come with money settlement."

"why is it the scandal been so long?"

"after receiving the settlement money, Ms. Choi made a lawsuit (not sure about this, since there are some disputes as to who is the one telling the truth about pregnancy and miscarriage, but since the body is hers, I supposed she is the one who should know about that) for miscarriage and pregnancy last year. However, till March 2015, she couldn't give evidence on such pregnancy. She only gave text message which containing her communication with KHJ regarding the pregnancy. KHJ's parents keeps wanting her to talk about the issues openly with them, but she never shows off. Then, on May 2015, KJH has to attend mandatory military for 2 years. He said in one of the text messages that by the time he is discharged from the military, the baby would be two years old and that would be difficult decision for him since he is going to miss the child grown up progress. However, he still said, if the baby is indeed his, he will take responsibility, marry Ms. Choi and promise her to live with her happily."

Miss Choi & Kim Hyun Joong

"then what's the problem with Ms. Choi?"

"Ms. Choi stated she doesn't have any intention of marriage and only wants to raise the child alone. This kind of problem keeps dragging up till now since the second pre-trial of the case, resulting in Ms. Choi couldn't give evidence of her last year's pregnancy. She never shows up in the court hearing also, due to the current pregnancy which she admitted on early January this year. The 22nd July hearing is also resulting in the assault case not being true since the evidence of bruises submitted by Ms. Choi seems to be accident from gym, not from abuse."

"then do you think the current pregnancy is true?"

"Maybe, it's possible that she is pregnant with KHJ's child. She claimed that on December 2014, they reconciled and went to Jeju Island for Christmas, which resulting to the current pregnancy. However, KHJ's side is not really sure whether the child is truly KHJ's. On the other side, Ms. Choi claimed to have broken up with KHJ since he slept together with so many girls, including actress J and some women who works at the night bar."

I keep thinking whether which side is true or not. However, in my eastern type of thinking and opinion, I am sure this might be somewhere true and somewhere not.

KHJ is a famous actor back then and I could say, every women would want to date him. 

However, since I never know what type of personality he has, I can only sum up to this point:

1.  Doing sex before marriage with actress J, in which the legal reps of KHJ already agreed that both of them were naked at the time where Ms. Choi entered their room, is not something acceptable for me. I mean... is this kind of attitude in this industry is normal? We never know. But I am really sorry for KHJ for having this type of attitude. This would lead to the opinion that KHJ is a free type to do some sexual relationship with anyone, whether he is conscious or not. In my eastern minded, I cannot accept that since if the problem happened, the victim will be on woman side. 

2.  Come to think to the above point, the sexual relationship with Ms. Choi might also be kind of sexual relationship in which KHJ is not aware whether he is drunk or not during the course of action. He isn't sure whether the child is his. Thus, allowing me to take an opinion in which Ms. Choi might have trapped him in the corner, and force him to think the child might be his since he is also not conscious at that time. That baby might not be KHJ's.

Some speculated that Ms. Choi is gold-digger and obsessed with KHJ due to the fact she is rejected. 

I have seen the text message changing between them and I was surprised to know how could KHJ said "pig" and "pregnancy machine" to Ms. Choi. However, we cannot forget how easy it is to manipulate text messaging to gain favor. But in whatever case, the legal reps said the text was not entirely exposed and the intended message is not degrading Ms. Choi. 

However, the point is still the same and in my opinion, he might said that not in a groundless reason since during the 7 months, Ms. Choi was able to get pregnant 4 times. Thinking that her status is ex-girlfriend at that time, and she was able to get herself pregnant 4 times and claimed that the fetus was from KHJ, I might be able to say:

 "Ms. Choi is indeed 'pregnancy machine' might be. How could you, as a woman, who has been told to get abortion and abuse from your ex-boyfriend still wants to sleep with him and get pregnant again? Are you seriously so fertile to get pregnant easily?"

Though, I was also not in favor with KHJ for saying that, since,

"If you don't want to be responsible for the baby, then get your sense and integrity, how could you still be able to have sexual relationship without thinking the consequences and now saying that she is a pregnant machine?"

Well, in whatever case, I hope this kind of drama will seriously end in a nice way.
I am not siding with anybody's side. It's just I am sharing my opinion.


Please get back after military discharge in 2017 healthily, KHJ, be a more mature and responsible man to your life first, then let your love one feel your responsibility sense. 

We also hope for Ms. Choi to be able to deliver the baby safely and please don't be that kind of woman who can be easily being treated in a way that hurts my heart as a woman too.  

I might say, I am not a big fan of KHJ. 

But I love how he acted in Boys Before Flowers and seems to have a gentle image also on Playful Kiss. Thus, allowing me to be able to like him more. 

However, since this scandal was out, I was unable to believe the fact in which I am confused with his personality. But in any case, I am happy that in 2009, I have a memory of liking him before the scandal was out. In any case, I am still hoping deep down inside my heart that he is not a bad guy. 

Notes:
Please forgive me if there were something wrong, since that's what I can summarize after reading the news. There are so many news which is very complicated thus I may have possibilities of being wrong, being judgmental and also being false.

Cheers, 

your reader, KHJ