TIME

Time is a measure in which events can be ordered from the past through the present into the future, and also the measure of duration of events and the intervals between them.

And I don't really like time. Time is indeed a scary thing for me. 

I don't like how our lives move around time and it keeps reminding us that time is moving. 

They can actually make you regret sometimes and many times I don't like being chased by time.

Simple example is, my foot was fine a minute ago till I knocked my foot to the door. It was bleeding.
Somebody might be here for me today, but there is no guarantee he will be here tomorrow.
Life happens and in unexpected way. There is no guarantee about time and thus, you have to make sure that every second in your life, you use it wisely.

Time is so precious, be responsible in your own time! :)

Cheers,

Lishea

Kim Hyun Joong's Paternity Test Result is OUT

The paternity result is out and it is positive 99.99999% that Kim Hyun Joong (KHJ) is the father of Ms. Choi's son. Do you still remember about the assault case of miscarriage of Ms. Choi? Both parties stated, they are still going to keep the case on going. Both Ms. Choi and the singer-actor’s family have spoken out.

Ms. Choi’s attorney, Sun Jong Moon, stated, “My client and Kim Hyun Joong lived together for about two years and she became pregnant five times during that period. We have submitted 66 pieces of evidence for the damage lawsuit.” He continued: “Kim Hyun Joong has continuously held unnecessary press conferences and performed media play that made my client out to be a national swindler and blackmailer without any evidence. Kim Hyun Joong will have to show himself responsible for his child and protect the rights of his child and the mother, and apologize for the ‘murder’ of Ms. Choi’s character through commentary in the likes of ‘She will have to take responsibility if the child is not mine.’”

Kim Hyun Joong’s parents held a press conference after the paternity test result was revealed. His father, Kim Hong Sung, stated: “When I heard she gave birth, first, I was sorry. I was sorry because I couldn’t see the child even though he is my blood. [The paternity] should have been revealed earlier. We said many times, starting from January, that we would take responsibility but the paternity confirmation was delayed. We are relieved that the paternity has been revealed, however late. We are sorry to the child. We are happy he is healthy.” The father continued: “Hyun Joong acknowledged that the child was his from the beginning. He always said he would take responsibility. Didn’t he say he was sorry to the child in the letter that was revealed in September?”

Kim Hyun Joong’s father revealed that he talked to his son, who said to him, “Dad, since the child is mine, I will take responsibility. The court will deal with the issue of child custody and I will follow that decision.” Kim Hong Sung added, “No matter to whom the custody is given, if it is for the best interest of the child, we will follow.”

Kim Hyun Joong’s mother, crying, responded in regards to Ms. Choi’s demand for an apology, “If Kim Hyun Joong dies, is that an apology? If his family dies, is that an apology?” She added: “A child needs to be welcomed into the world. We hope that the child will no longer be linked to money. We will do our best for the happiness of the child. We said several times that we acknowledge paternity and that we will take responsibility but why does she keep trying to kill Hyun Joong?”

Kim Hyun Joong’s father added, “We want to reach a solution regarding the child over conversation.” Regarding the lawsuit against Ms. Choi, Mr. Kim stated that it is a separate matter necessary for revealing the truth so it will not be dropped. Kim Hyun Joong’s lawyer, Lee Jae Man, stated, “If we don’t continue with the lawsuit, Kim Hyun Joong will have to live with the disgrace of being accused of assaulting her for becoming pregnant with his child.”

The story is far beyond what I have expected. Last time I was still in the hope that the child is not KHJ and expected Ms. Choi to be a liar. But then as the news is coming out, I have to state that both parties are wrong in any aspect of the case. 

How could, a woman, after being into an abusive relationship got pregnant 5 times during 2 years and you still want to get pregnant again (ed. the last pregnancy) with the same guy you slept with 2 years ago? I still couldn't understand what logic did she think about? For sure, it's not only KHJ's fault but BOTH of them for their lack of humanity, lack of virtue, lack of attitude towards life and their irresponsibility and their childish action.

There is no more like a pity and reputation being tarnished because both of them deserved it.

Single doesn't mean YOU are not HAPPY

Status as singles often causes people to be melancholy. There are many reasons for that, sometimes when Saturday night strikes and your friends go on a date, you've got no one to hang out with. I mean if you have, until when are you going to be like that? Everyone sooner or later will have their own significant. Besides, when trouble strikes, you don't know whom and what to tell the story about. Many times you will feel bored to go somewhere alone and lead you to think that you are so unlucky. If this keeps going, you will naturally forget how to be grateful. 

Even if you are single, there are many things to be grateful and happy for. Below are the things you could do to feel grateful even though you are single.

1. People could tell that you are lonely. Let it go. Beat them with your SMILE.



The most vulnerable question is, "You're 23 right this year? Still single? Want me to look for one for you?". Well, although it's a joke but if the question was always be thrown to you all the time, then you can get real upset about it. These jokes may make you feel the pressure which resulting in your shapeless face. 

Instead of a sour face every day, why don't you try to radiate positive aura with a smile?

Smile makes your heart light and can make others happy to see you being happy. Although you are single, you ought to be happy. Show your smile and don't be shy. The good thing is, with your cheerful face, you never know there's someone who will be interested to get to know you. 

2. Practice to compliments others

The road to find the right one is indeed not easy. Many times we have to go through the dark cloud while being single and this phase is not easy to get passed, moreover when all of our friends already have their significant other. And many times, the being alone makes you overthinking about the future.

Before you sink to even deeper grounds, there is nothing wrong to change your stand point of view. Try and practice to appreciate others and you may find yourself to be more open-minded. Complimenting others help you to recognize what life has given you, either you are still single or not, you may find yourself to be grateful to what life has offered and who knows by doing that, people will notice your way of pleasing others and your status will change soon.

3. Help others may help you to find inner peace. 

Well, if you really want to immediately found your significant other, try to become a person who is open and indifferent in every respect. For example, you can help others. Helping others will give you inner peace and not only you can make others to feel happy, but you are also indeed happy.


4. Keep improving yourself

Many times, being single makes you feel not confident about yourself. Maybe, you have experienced being asked this question, "You are so beautiful, kind, gorgeous, why are you still single?" And this make you think, "Why no one likes me?" It's not about why and what is wrong with you. But it's just not the time yet.

Rather than thinking this and that. isn't it better to be yourself, keep improving your skills, your attitude, your way of thinking and keep learning? This may help you getting to know yourself and yourself worth, and many times help you getting to know what you are looking for in a life partner and in life. Then, this way, you are not JONES - Jomblo Ngenes, but Jomblo Berkualitas.


5. Hug your family and friends.

Never let the feeling of being lonely take over you. Remember you got family and friends who always ready to hug you whenever you need them. I got only few friends, but they are the best in my life. Although I've been single for 23 years, they still fill my younger years with smiles.

6. Congratulate your friend who is getting married.

The most depressing moment for single is when your friends are getting married, while you still got no one and there's still long way to go. Sometimes you will fell, "When will be mine?". And much more, you will feel ungrateful of your destiny. The best thing is to congratulate your friend and let go of your feeling. Maybe now it is the time for your friend and who knows maybe it's your time next year, right?

God has arranged the best possible way for each of us. Believe Him and everything is beautiful is ITS time.

7. Count Your Blessings

Take note on things that make you feel grateful. Sometimes we naturally forget about the blessings we have received so far and thus, take note. This will help you later when we have to keep reminded ourselves to be grateful.


8. Respect others, Appreciate them and Say thank you

Don't forget to treat others in a good way. Maybe when you are close enough with someone last time, you hurt his feeling.

Give thanks to your family for being besides you always, your friend who always support you and thank God for giving you a chance to live.


When you are grateful, fear disappears and abundance appears - Anthony Robbins


Even when you are single, you should be happy!

Cheers!